“In a Gentle Way, You can SHAKE the World”
-Mahatma Ghandi
Start 2013 on a positive note. There is no reason for hate.
Thank you to everyone who give me love and support everyday.. but its not about me.. its about how we treat one another. I am not the only one who gets these comments everyday. Its happening in school, in relationships.. everywhere! It has to stop. Its sad enough that women in other countries have to suffer JUST for being born a woman, but then to have a woman bash another woman just because of jealousy or no reason at all? There is NO excuse for that. Even if someone has treated you bad, or has called you names.. face them with a smile. Its the strongest weapon you could ever use. Lets stick together. Let’s all make a change.
This is just something I had to get off my chest. There is no reason for anyone to say anything hurtful to a fellow human being. We are all here to co-exist on this beautiful planet of ours.
The time is NOW to start making a change in the way we treat one another. Im not perfect, I’m far from it… so I want to start 2013 on a positive note and make a change.
The best weapon anyone could ever use, is their smile.
From my smile to yours, I love you, lets make this change together.
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL in EVERY WAY!
besos <3
Farah
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Hi farah, I absolutely agree with u. Unfortunately there are ppl who hurt, hate and jealousy and it mostly happens with woman v woman. We women have build a competition among us which not only leave bruises on eachother but also the generation to come. It hurts me alot. I”ve suffered the same fate but all I can do is pray that May Allah bring us together.
P.s love u n ur videos :
Samina
Hi sweetheart
it truly makes me sad when we all cant come together as a community of people in the world 
u know what the great part about bruises is though? sure they hurt when u touch them.. but they always go away! I just want to let you know that im here for you always 
XO! LOVE YOU!
Dear, I completely agree with what you say!
After having gone through so many haters, I am now surrounded with a small circle filled with beautiful people. I always wanna smile at those who hate me but then I fail to do it most of the times. Let this be my new year resolution! 
Wish you a fantabulous new year! Long way to go babe! Keep rocking!
Hi sweetheart! im so happy you are surrounded by beautiful people! you deserve the best my gorgeous love! <3
Very beautiful Video, Sharing as I speak
. Thanks Farah!!
thank you sweetheart! im glad we can work together to spread positivity! <3 mush
I teared up…thanks for a beautiful reminder…now I know where to go to find help if I’m feeling upset!
I’m ready for the challenge! 
for my friends that I can’t see I am posting smiley faces and hearts and letting them know that they are beautiful! 
and for those that say mean things I’m ready to face them with a big huge smile! 
thanks Farah you are going to be remembered with a gerougous soul! Blessings from HuntingtonBeach, Ca. <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 
I will ALWAYS be here for you whenever you want to talk!! thank you for leaving such a positive message! LOVE YOU you are BEAUTIFUL both inside and out!!!! <3<3
This video is such a good reminder. As a mom of two girls I will pass this on. And don’t listen to negative people. I’ve learned that mean people often don’t have a reflection or soul.
sometimes people who feel the need to spread hate, just need a little extra love
Dear Farah,
You are such a wonderful person. You seem to be wise beyond your years. Your family and friends (that includes us as well
) are so lucky to have you in our lives. May God bless you with every good thing thats right for you. Have a wonderful year ahead and many many more to come. Much love.
Hi darling! thank you so much for saying that! Im lucky to have YOU! <3 xoxo Love, Farah
Hi my dear sissssssssssssssssssy
I love you in all the ways. you’re good enough to everyone. I’m really really lucky to have u in my life
When I saw your videooooo my eyes filled with tears ;( I love you darling 
goose bumping dear 
I know you made a video for this means how many post you got it 
;( but the world is very small sisssyyyyyyyy we can make the change we want very soon dear 
the videooooooo contains only sound, there’s no voice of u but I could hear your voice dear 
love you for being this much stronger and made me also very very very stronger 
No one in this world is perfect but everyone must try to be perfect
Jealous/angry/pessimistic attitude ends with these problems….. but no one stop and think that if I’m the one who is going to commented like that means ? Its all about empathy 
we have rights to make others happy alone 
Now I’m start spreading this awareness message to everyone……. I’m joining my hand with my sissy to make the world better….. anyone who interested in this just come and join your hand with us 
w can make the better tomorrow altogether 
We must be the change as we expect…… being positive in all the situation alone help us to grow and Finally in this world we born to help,love and support one another……. I need support till my death….. If I die whom will do everything for my funeral ? That must be a true one from a true person,,,,, so that requires true love 
We born to get to know others and love others……. Relationship is important than anything else 
<3
Judge nothing, you will be happy. Forgive everything, you will be happier. Love everything, you will be happiest
"Life laughs at you when you are unhappy ….
Life smiles at you when you are happy ……
But, Life salutes you when you make others happy … Charlie Chaplin "
"JOIN THIS JOURNEY OF LOVING OTHERS AND BEING POSITIVE ALWAYS WITH FARAH AND ME "
love u sissssssssssssssssssssssy
Hi my love! you always leave the most wonderful messages! I love you so so so much! you’re right the world is small and we all can make a change
IT IS possible! i LOVED reading what you wrote it was absolutely beautiful and completely true! ur right! all we do need is a little empathy! I love love love you so much!! One day i hope we can meet u really are my soul sister! XO
farah please upload smokey eye tutorials! you do the best make up EVER mashalla mashalla so please upload some more!
aw thank you sweetie
coming soon.. ive been ill with the stomach flu 
this video was so powerful. thank you for sharing your words hopefully people will learn from it. it is time for a change we have to much hate going in our country and world as it is:( exp. towards women.
thank you hunnie! I agree! i think our world as a whole needs to come together.. especially with all the violence that has been going on lately
<3
Thank u Farah. I hope all this and I wish u the best!!! This Video made m cry…. So emotional
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thank you hunnie! sending you lots of hugs and love! dont cry and if u ever need someone to talk to please dont hesitate to message me! xo
Simple. Perfect. Thank you!
<3 my pleasure darling!
woow farah , i literaly cried!!
that was just so emtional
you are just too kind and beutiful. your beutiful just the wy you dont let anyone say that you r ugly.
love you farah stay stong (f)
aww you are so sweet thank you dont cry! im sending u lots of hugs and love! <3 LOVE YOU
Farah,
This was a very powerful video! Mashallah! You’re absolutely right, women suffer so much oppression as it is, for us to oppress each other makes no sense. We need to get over our insecurities and be gentle with ourselves and with others. You are such an inspiration to me, from your tips to your attitude! Thank you for staying positive through your youtube journey, I’ve noticed more and more you put disclaimers in your videos and lately you go out of your way to explain yourself as if you’re trying to dodge yourself from the rude comments which havent even approached you yet. I’m sure some people will never change and you will continue to get hate from ppl simply bc they are jealous of you. Keep your head up and May Allah reward you for your optomistic outlook on life and even more for biting your tongue in anger. I love you, you’re beautiful!
HAPPY NEW YEAR!
I totally agree with everything that you said! thank you so much for the kind words
i sometimes do put disclaimers for those who feel the need to judge but as a resolution i decided that enough is enough and its time for me to just be myself and to be ok with it 
<3 love you!!!
tears in my eyes…..!!!
sending u lots of hugs and love! Love you!
Thanks Farah!!!! I love your videos, you are a wonderful person with a big, huge heart!! Thanks for this video!!! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL… From Dominican Republic, I am a huge fan!!!
thank you so much for the kind words my love!!!!! <3
I was shocked that someone would think you’re ugly or manly or whatever. You’re truly beautiful inside and out and that is rare these days.
You’re right, it’s crazy how some women can turn on each other like predators to prey. Is there really a need for this kind of behaviour when it’s hard enough just getting by day to day? I thought that childish behavior was supposed to end in Junior High. Goes to show how some people just did not evolve.
Keep your head up Farah, you have a wonderful personality, a great talent for make up application and “youtubing”, and a great sense of style. Just look at the number of people following you!
Those cruel people were not your sisters, they are haters.
Take care and have a great & positive 2013
Weezie
aw thank you so much sweetheart! i agree there is NO need for this type of behaviour! I feel like we need to come together as a stronger society
like birds for example.. they always fly together! thank yu again honey! <3
Hi Farah,
This video truly does have a powerful message, Its really sad that people focus on the physical aspects of a person when we truly should be focusing on the good qualities that matter in a person. Also you are a beautiful person and even though i do not have the honor of knowing you personally i can sense you truly have a beautiful heart and soul. Much Love from Minnesota
Hi love!
it is sad when people focus on the physical! you are so sweet i wish i had the honor of knowing YOU personally!!! thank you so much for the kind words! LOVE YOU!
I confess to being very judgmental in my youth. But the older I get the more I realize material and physical things matter not an iota in the grand scheme of things. It is amazing how, simply by deciding to be a better, kinder person, one can change oneself. Of course the first step is to recognize that there is a problem with one’s outlook in life. I have read quite a few sociological and psychological journals trying to understand this catty/judgmental way we women can behave towards each other. Even supposed best friends speak about each other behind their respective backs. It is overall a competitive streak we have, and we imagine that when we bring another woman down we have a better chance at succeeding in life. It is wrong, and terrible, and we need to learn to become comrades rather than rivals.
Anyhoo I think you are beautiful, sweet, and soooo funny. Marry me, baby, and let us freak out your and my [Pakistani] family. >:P
P.S. I don’t spend much money on makeup and such things since I would rather give that money to charity. So I really appreciate your DIY beauty advice.
I wont lie sweetheart, i was a judgemental youth too! as i started growing older closer to the end of my high school years, i saw the kind of hurt that my words inflicted and i never wanted to hurt someone like that ever again so i realized that its the good in you that goes the long haul. I think theres nothing wrong with a little friendly competition but I think its the hurtful competition that really needs to stop
U are absolutely right in everything that you said 
LOL! you are hilarious! lets run away together! imagine the look on my husband and families face and your family! Hey.. noting wrong with appreciating the beauty of a woman
ps. you are the sweetest most kindest woman ever! absolutely LOVE you!
Hi Farah, you have made my life change every day second ,min,my sisters say to me that im ugly that im nothing but Farah. Its been 4 month that I have seen ur videos and I been doing every single step from top of my body and down hair clothes,shoes ECT and they don’t have word to tell me anything and they tell u have change alot who show u to dress ,ur hair is different ur makeup but I tell them a very good angle god send from far away keep on smile =) so thank u and remember u r beautiful love hug and kiss muha..lori
hi hunnie! sisters always like to tease eachother.. just know that you are BEAUTIFUL! you are so sweet omg thank you for saying that! im so happy i could help! you are amazing and beautiful and i love you!! HUG!!! <3
love u farah sis <3 ur soul is as beautiful as u r so i can say u r completely beautiful ,
lots of luv
stay blessed
xoxo
love you too my beautiful sister! <3 thank you so much YOU are beautiful both inside and out!! LOVE YOU! <3 Farah
Hi Farah,
May all your dreams come true 
n have tried some of it 
you are truely beautifull, good hearted person 
be happy n take care of yourself darling 
love yo 
First of all Wish you a very Happy New Year
This is a lovely videos that I must say…. All the lines are very true.. Thanks for the video.. I like all your videos very much
Hi darling! happy new year! i wish the same for you! you are beautiful both inside and out
keep smiling! love you always! <3 farah
OMG ! yo replied !
I am soooooo happpppy 
I am just flying 
I cant tell yo how I am feeling 
I am gonna tell this to my hubby now 
before that I just wanted to tell yo thanks for your sweet reply 
love yo darling 
<3
Farah,
I am currently in beauty school and my instructor works for Matrix.
She told me last night that they will be discontinuing your favorite shampoo!
The Biolage color therapy for delicate hair.
She said probably May 2013 it will be discontinued.
Sorry >.<
whaaaaatttttt are you serious!!!!! noooooooooo i need to stock up!! thank you for telling me! xox
Thank you!.
Your wise words not only prove there is still kindness in this world but that true beauty comes from within. We all are beautiful … thank you for reminding us that and for encouraging us to be part of The Change! Blessings.
my pleasure sweetheart! you have a beautiful heart and soul! <3 xoxo
Hey buddy
This is the beautiful and the best video i’ve seen this year i must say. As millions of people out there i totally agree with you and yes, lets make the change by being the change.
ha ha.. we all love you sweetie,,
)
I absolutely love your job and lemme tell you, i’m from one corner of india and you have no idea how many people here watches you. I’ve been boasting that i was the first one to find you over the net. I’ve been telling every female frn i find to check you out. we all have tried many of your videos.
We are all but to start a FarahFanClub
don give the shit bout wot low lives talk bout u.. U are perfect the way you are. We’ve got your back. those haters are like a tiny tiny drop in the big ocean of love you r getting from your viewers , us. just shrug them off.
i’m writing on behalf of all my frns to you .
btw, wish you a beautiful, happy and colorful new year
(wish me the same )
(thank u, thank u
Well, I’ve few questions in fact many,,, umm.. but i’ll start with this one thing which bothers me a lot. (n also coz i’m not sure if u ans
:P )
I’ve very very smooth skin on my eye lid. even while threading i’ve to put lot of powder to hold it back from getting torn up. I like to do my eyebrows myself. i can do the upper part of my brows but never the lower part, coz the skin gets stuck onto the thread and get pulled.
one more problem is i have lot of wrinkles/lines on my eye lid (i guess its coz the area is very smooth) n if i put on the eye shadow, it doesn’t look as good as it does on others (who has stiff n lil harder skin) . I have no one to ask for but you.
I’m sure u’ll have an ans. (i really can’t write anything short. Can i? uff )
Please do ans..
Waiting for your reply.
yours
Very loyal student
Madhu
Hi darling! you are so sweet thank you for telling people about me! haha youre adorable! i love you guys too! im so happy to have your love and support
I too wish you a beautiful happy and colorful new year full of LOVE! when youre threading your eyebrows if you find the skin is too soft, have u tried possibly taping the lid if you dont have someone to hold it for you? try to keep the tape away from your eyelashes tho 
Dont want those being pulled out! as far as wrinkles on the lid, sometimes i get the same issue as well.. the only thing i can suggest is using an eyecream to firm up the wrinkles a little bit but honestly the lids are really hard to work with 
please feel free to message me anytime! i would LOVE to hear from you! <3 XO love, Farah
Dear Farah,
i first hope you a happy new year and i want to congratulate you for your message.
I am completely agree with you .
I follow your site from now one month and i thank you for your advices( haircare routine, make up, hauls) and i want to say you that my little boy aged of 3 years is an inconditional fan.
Thanks for all.
Hi darling! happy new year! you are so sweet thank you so much! that is soooo cute ur little boy like me!! give him a hug and kiss from me!! <3 xoxo
You and your words are beautiful.
thank you sweetheart! you are beautiful both inside and out! XO!
Hello Farah,
As a fellow Indian woman, I was feeling the same way you felt. Why are women so hard on each other? It’s the women who impose harsh rules such as genital mutilation on their own innocent little girls. It’s the women that tell their sons, your wife gave you a daughter and she is not good enough, you need only a son. As young generation women we need to stop this vicious cycle for the sake of our future women. Women are precious gifts from God. I know he is crying because he gave women a soft heart to love generously. What is going on today is so sad.
Let me just say that you are beautiful both inside and out. I’m sure you are told this plenty of times. But it’s that one single person that can take it all away with some hurtful words. I am confident to say that person is JEALOUS of you plain and simple. So please don’t let this stop you from doing what you do and that’s helping others, like myself. Your beauty tips really work. I don’t just follow anyone’s advice, but I do follow yours.
So as you said some people just can’t see someone else happy, they always try to take it away. Continue to do what you do, it’s gift that no one should try to take away. Thank you for your videos, I love them. You’ve got at least one person on your side and that’s enough.
With love and blessings
Suraya
Hi darling! I think its a feeling of competition that women feel towards eachother
I agree women are precious… hey.. we all came from a woman! thank you so much for the kind words! Honestly, the mean things that are said to me dont bother me at all because im so happy and blessed in life with wonderful people like you.. the only thing that bothers me that if its happening to me, its happening to other beautiful people around the world and i cant stand the thought of anyone being hurt over words 
Thank you again for the kind words, you are a beautiful amazing person! LOVE you!
Hi Farah,
I need your help! I’ve been doing the almond treatment with the peppermint oil and it does work wonders. However, I started doing this back in Nov ’12 and ever since then my scalp has been super itchy. I use the matrix shampoo and the rusk conditioner you said was good. So i’m not sure what the issue is. Do you know how I can stop the itching?
Thanks much
Very powerful Farah, thank you. P.S. You ARE beautiful!
thank you hunnie! you are beautiful as well! both inside and out! XO!
Hi Farah,
You are so right. We are beautiful and powerful and make a big difference in this world. You have already made a difference in my life and many others. Lets be positive and kind towards each other and just shake them haters off.
Happy New Year
Hi hunnie! thank you so much! im so happy to hear ive been able to make even the smallest difference
you and my many lovely friends that ive met from my journey on youtube have made the biggest difference in my life and im so thankful for you all! xo! happy new year!
Hey farah… Happy New Year
Thank you so much for sharing this video with all of us. In the Hustle Bustle of life, we people forget such simple and yet so powerful traits that we possess as human beings. I believe that no individual is bad within, but circumstances made them so.. but this is not the reason that we can take for granted for all our mis conduct and mis behaviour with others.
Its very important for all of us to keep visiting our innerself and try to keep it in its most pious and innocent and impervious form…!!
We need to believe that we all our b’ful .. make upcan enhance the features temporarily.. but in the end when its time to say goodbye to this world, no one remembers us for the amount of make up we had applied.. but they remember us for the “the good make up” of our heart and soul.
you are truly a person confer with a very kind and best heart..!! Keep up the good work. and I join hand with you to be a part of this change.
Love
Hi hunnie! happy new year! its my pleasure
I agree I think as we’ve come into the new generation, weve all forgotten to work together to live in love and harmony! I agree with you completely that we are not bad within and its our circumstances that make us so… thats why i believe that those who feel the need to spread hate need that extra love! I LOVED your message! thank you so much for posting this for others to read and enjoy 
Happy to have you a part of this change 
XO LOVE Farah
Hey Farah… I tried that gram flour and turmeric face pack.. and guess what sweets…, It did wonder on my skin.. since morning my skin feels so alive and young and bubbly.. thank you .. love..!!
Hi Farah,
This was such a beautiful video, I loved it and I am definitely passing it on. Isn’t it funny that no matter how great we may feel, look or even do something, that all it takes is for one person to say something negative and thats the thing we focus on and remember? Its such a shame that these people have so little self esteem and empathy that they have the need to strike out at someone they don’t even know (not that knowing would excuse such behavior.) I believe in The Golden Rule and try my best (not always so successfully) to live it fully. I also believe if society would do the same, we wouldn’t be having the crazy violence we seem to be experiencing so often these days. Some days when Im not feeling at my best, I practice smiling or saying something complimentary to the strangers I pass in the stores and its amazing the results! It can really change a bad day into a great one. I support you and absolutely love your videos and know you are a beautiful soul and sooo glad I found you.
Thank you for sharing your knowledge and self with all of us, your fans
Love, Tracy
Hi Farah… ilove ur blog & videos .. and i’ve been reading your blog since like forevvvvver!! and have inspired me to start my own blog. I love food and fashion but food was really my greater passion… so please stop by sometime..>! i’ll be thrilled!
U r amazing… dont let anyone makw u think otherwise!
It’s a really beautiful message!I ‘m totally agree with you!Sometimes people can be so rude,it’s really sad…Why can we appreciate each other simply for what we are???
I can tell you that you are a beautiful person OUTSIDE AND INSIDE!!I always smile when I see your videos you’re such a positive and friendly person really…I wish I could have a friend like you:-)
Give the better of you to others:it’s exactly what you do Farah and I always come back to your blog and your videos because of that.DON’T CHANGE ANYTHING PLEASE!
I wish you all the best for this New Year :a sister from France.
This video make me cry.. your the best xoxo
it’s an inspirational video and i love it.. i salute u farah.. continue with what u are doing. u are beautiful inside and out..
Dear Farah,
*Claps for you.
Wow. I mean, I have no words to describe this video. You truly are one of the best people. You’re helping everyone in your own way which is really helping all of us. This video not only made me feel beautiful but really, I will try and bring that change in me. I will be a little more kinder and grateful for all that I have and all that I am. I will bring that change in me. Thank you Farah. You truly are one of the most amazing, kind and selfless people I have ever come across. Thank you Farah for spreading love and peace.
This video made my day and it left me feeling happy inside and out.
Thank you Farah.
L
Hey! I hope you’re better now and the stomach flu is gone.
Also, I am not saying this in a mean tone, but I am genuinely shocked and a little sad that being of Indian origin(especially from Gujarat area) you have spelled “Gandhi” wrong twice…once in the video and once in the post…
Farah-I had been having such a horrible week & was feeling very defeated & broken inside…until I quite literally stumbled upon your You Tube channel tonight. Although I absolutely love your hair, makeup & fashion tutorials (to which I am already totally addicted!), your latest video on ‘How do you want to be remembered?’ just blew me away. It was so ingeniously and powerfully filmed, and is so personal, genuine & heartfelt, that it really spoke to me. I am totally new to You Tube, and I am proud to say that I am your latest subscriber! Your message of ‘sisterhood’ & supporting each other was so inspirational. I came to your channel looking for makeup tips, and I found a sweet, adorable, talented, funny and sincere young woman who is not only beautiful inside & out, but also whose message serves as a role model for ALL women…of all sizes, shapes, ethnicities, ages & religions…to love yourself & one another. Life is too short to waste precious time on negativity, hate & jealousy…so PLEASE keep on being true to yourself & encouraging ALL of us girls out here who love you and are your loyal supporters & fans! Wishing you and your husband a lifetime of abundant joy & blessings!
I just want to say, I just recently found you on youtube and you.are.amazing!!!
You are such an inspiration and so incredibly beautiful
I am absolutely in love with everything that you do
<3
Hello farah!
First id like to tell you you’re a beautiful soul and you inspire me so much. Your videos are a wonderful help and Id love to be remembered for doing all your videos lol!
I wanted to ask you, and i hope you answer my message its so hard to catch you sometimes in a response but its ok i know your busy.
My question is, id like to know a brief recipe for the charcoal and green tea mask sooo so bad I’m dying!
Thank you you’re amazing i love you teheh <3
Hello Beautiful Spirit,
I was researching something on Youtube and ran across one of your videos. When I read some of the replys my spirit became sad, so I stopped reading them. I clicked on this site and watched a few more of your video’s and came across this one. There is only truth in what you say about us as women and how we treat each other. I’ve been experiencing some problems and was looking for some positive qoutes. I believe there are no accidents and everything happens for a reason. Today I read
“You will be transformed by what you read.”
― Deepak Chopra
So today I have been transformed x3!!! (This video, the qoute and the helpful tutorials)
I’d like to thank you for your time and sharing all of your wisdom with all of use seeking to improve ourselves inside and out. I’m excited about trying some of your recipes. (Especially for my dark circles and the peel). Be Blessed Farrah. Keep the vids coming.
Farrah~
Oh my gosh I can’t believe someone would say those hurtful words to you.. I would say the complicate opposite…. I was just saying “OMG she is so gorgeous, I love her eyes, what amazing hair, she is lovely and so sweet….. I love watching you.. I just come across your u tube channel. Love all your wonderful ideas… I’m so very sorry people are have such hateful hearts.. Your video was very touching.. I hate that we as woman don’t stick together and praise each other more. Again I think you just lovely.. You made a difference in me. So thank you!!!
~HUGS~
Nicole
Dear Farah,
You are so right! We should all be a little nicer to other people. I feel sad that you have to hear all these negative comments… I hope you know that there are more people out there who appreciate what you do, than people who don’t. I am a relatively new subscriber, but i adore your vids. Keep giving us advise Farah. We all love to hear what you have to say.
Hi farah i just wanna say that you are “AWESOME”… Love u<3